Archive for 2015
If We Can't Have What We Love, Then Love What We Have
Be thankful, if we can not have what we Love, Then Love what we have.
Looking down : Be grateful for all that exists.
Look to the side : Has the spirit of togetherness.
Looking back : Make it as a valuable experience.
Look into : Learn to introspect and
Looking ahead : Prepare yourself to be better.
From water we learn Tranquility.
From the stone we learn Rigidity.
From the Land We learn of Life.
From butterflies we learn Changing Yourself.
From rice we learn Humble.
From HEART we learned about the Perfect Love.
Because no one is perfect.
Message of LOVE
- If someone wants to be a part of your life. He will seriously make an effort to work on that. Without reason, without rebuttal. A struggle that is worth fighting for and guarded.
- Stop waiting for someone who may not even run directed towards you, even if it is difficult to leave but had to. If she loves, she will defend you no matter what, and in fact? He did not choose you. Accept reality and go, it's one you light outlaw even though he did not say it.
- If the two are like, so both will be mutual efforts. If only you were a business, it means he does not like. Simple.
- Better to wait for the right person, rather than spending time with the wrong people.
- We can not choose who we fall in love, but we can choose who is worthy to keep fighting.
- Do not convince yourself that he likes, just because he's being nice to you. Sometimes we just become an option when he gets bored with each other.
- People who love you, will never be able to give reasons why he loves you. But hearts and your eyes there is only one, to do anything for you, jyga receive you what it is, even if people say you're bad, he still looks at all really very good and perfect.
- Blessed, when someone talkative, while someone still wants to be angry, when someone is still memperdulikanmu, because when someone did not say anything, he has to get used to no longer need you.
LESSONS OF FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE RATS
Perhaps no one ever hurt a friend or friends? As a man who got the highest advantage among all creatures, we are apparently still have to learn the animal instinct. Even on a pair of white mice.
In a zoo, Zoo Hangzau Zheijang province, eastern China, happening at once touching the unique scenery. When two white rats were caged snake for dinner, one rat was immediately approached by a snake as his first meal.
However, what happens? The white mouse friend bravely approached the snake and attack to help his friend who is in danger of dying in the mouth of the snake. Of course these actions very daring, considering the green snake is venomous varieties. So, not only much larger than the size of the body of the rat, snake strength is well above its class.
One of the officers in charge of feeding the snake, and perpetuate witnessed the incident. He also tearfully took back rat snake attacking predators. According to the guards, these mice have the right to earn a chance to live.
The above story may be an afterthought, that should we treat a friend, not only to laugh when happy, but also present when he was in grief and need help.
CRITICIZE IT EASY, BUT CORRECT THE DIFFICULT
There is a painting which was completed for 5 days 4 nights-a very beautiful landscape painting. The artist wants to show his work at the crowd, at the same time want to know what they think.
Then, he put his painting on a busy street. Under the painting, he gave the writing, "This painting is my work. Maybe I've made some mistakes in the scratches, color selection, and so on. Please mark X on the part that you think are wrong." In the afternoon, the artist returned to retrieve the painting, and he was very surprised to see the whole canvas filled with an X following the comments spicy.
With very disappointed, the artist went to a painting teacher. He feels useless and failed to become a painter. The wise teacher, then shows his students how to prove that he is not a bad painter.
This painting teacher asked her to create a painting that has been stripped back these people. But this time, the caption under the picture reads thus, "Brothers, I have painted this painting. Perhaps there is an error in the scratches, color selection, and so on. So I provide a canvas, a box of brushes, and paint. Please be kind enough to fix it. Thank you. "
In the afternoon, he returned. The result? The painting was kept clean without any correction. The painting was still left there until the next three days, and still keep it clean of correction.
Message we can take from this story:
- Criticizing is easy, but it is difficult to fix.
- Do not let yourself be crushed and depressed simply because of the criticism of others.
- Analysis Analysis k criticism carefully. If wrong, do not care about. But if true it must be accepted. Take criticism to improve.
Fruit Can Also Fall Far From The Tree
There are 2 people brother sister who was born of a broken family, mother and their father drunkards, gamblers, and other bad things.
Their mother died earlier when they were little and yet know nothing, while their father died when they were still in school.
Because it does not have any family that is willing to accommodate, they live in a different orphanage. News about the unfortunate fate of the two brothers, adorned the local news papers in their country.
40 years after the incident, the chief editor of the newspaper wanted to know where the two sister brother was, he sent a team of reporters to cover the event special.
They found her brother was in a bar or nightclubs in a drunken condition and appears to have no bathing days.
And they interviewed the brother, why did he get to be like this?
With a cry, the sister replied: "I like this because Father,,, What can you expect from the son of a drunkard? Here I am, a drunk too, fruit that does not fall far from the tree !!"
Meanwhile another journalist discovered his brother, is in another city as a director of a Large Company, he has a family happy and wealthy life.
They interviewed the brother, what is the motivation that he could be this good, he replied: "My father was an alcoholic and gambler FIRST, I will Prove to everybody that I could be successful, great people, even though I was born into a family of drunks and gamblers !! ".
Mindset in mind is what will determine how and where DIRECTION lives are going to live.
Do you see from the NEGATIVE / POSITIVE you take his side, choice is in your hands respectively.
Never be caught in the doctrine of any kind !! Keep in mind: It turns out that "Fruit Can Also Fall Far From The Tree !!.
NEVER GIVE UP
Spain Version : el poder del amor de madre
Una niña y su madre estaban cruzando un puente que frágil. La madre le dijo a su hija "toma mi mano con fuerza para que no caigan en el río"
Ella respondió "no madre, la madre que tuvo que sostener mi mano." !!! se declaró
Cual es la diferencia? "Le pregunté a la madre que confunde
"La diferencia muy grande", respondió ella, "si estuviera sosteniendo manos de la madre y llegó algo me pasa, probablemente voy a soltar mis manos"
"Pero si la madre que sostiene mi mano, sé que pase lo que pase, la madre nuncava a dejar ir de la mano
Ella respondió "no madre, la madre que tuvo que sostener mi mano." !!! se declaró
Cual es la diferencia? "Le pregunté a la madre que confunde
"La diferencia muy grande", respondió ella, "si estuviera sosteniendo manos de la madre y llegó algo me pasa, probablemente voy a soltar mis manos"
"Pero si la madre que sostiene mi mano, sé que pase lo que pase, la madre nuncava a dejar ir de la mano
Hindi Version : माँ के प्यार की शक्ति
एक छोटी लड़की और उसकी माँ कमजोर है कि एक पुल पार कर रहे थे। माँ "आप नदी में गिरावट नहीं है कि इतना कसकर मेरा हाथ पकड़" उसकी बेटी को बताया
उसने कहा, "नहीं माँ, मेरा हाथ पकड़ के लिए किया था, जो माँ।" प्रतिक्रिया व्यक्त की !!! उन्होंने वकालत की
क्या अंतर है? "उलझन जो माँ से पूछा
वह उत्तर दिया, "बहुत बड़ा अंतर" "मैं हाथ मां पकड़े हुए थे और अगर कुछ भी पहुंचे मैं शायद मेरी पकड़ जारी करने जा रहा हूँ, मेरे पास होता है"
"लेकिन मेरे हाथ रखती है, जो माँ, मैं जो कुछ भी होता है, माँ मेरे हाथ से जाने नहीं पता है किअगर"
उसने कहा, "नहीं माँ, मेरा हाथ पकड़ के लिए किया था, जो माँ।" प्रतिक्रिया व्यक्त की !!! उन्होंने वकालत की
क्या अंतर है? "उलझन जो माँ से पूछा
वह उत्तर दिया, "बहुत बड़ा अंतर" "मैं हाथ मां पकड़े हुए थे और अगर कुछ भी पहुंचे मैं शायद मेरी पकड़ जारी करने जा रहा हूँ, मेरे पास होता है"
"लेकिन मेरे हाथ रखती है, जो माँ, मैं जो कुछ भी होता है, माँ मेरे हाथ से जाने नहीं पता है किअगर"
Germany Version : Die Macht der Liebe Mutter
Ein kleines Mädchen und ihre Mutter eine Brücke, die fragile überqueren. Die Mutter erzählte ihrer Tochter "halte meine Hand fest, so dass Sie nicht in den Fluss fallen"
Sie antwortete: "keine Mutter, die Mutter, die meine Hand halten musste." !!! er flehte
Was ist der Unterschied? "Auf die Frage der Mutter, die verwirrt
"Der Unterschied Very Large", antwortete sie, "wenn ich die Hände Mutter mit und kam mir etwas passiert, ich bin wahrscheinlich zu meinen Griff zu lösen"
"Aber wenn die Mutter, die meine Hand hält, ich weiß, dass alles, was der Fall ist,die Mutter wird niemals meine Hand los lassen"
Chinese Version : 对母亲的爱的力量
一个小女孩和她的母亲是过桥的脆弱。母亲告诉她女儿“握住我的手紧紧的，这样你就不会落入河”
她回答“没有母亲，谁曾握住我的手的母亲。”！他恳求
有什么区别？ “当被问及谁糊涂母亲
“区别非常大。”她说，“如果我是牵着手母亲和到达任何发生在我身上，我可能会释放我的抓地力”
“但如果谁牵我手的妈妈，我知道无论发生什么事，母亲永远不会放开我的手”
她回答“没有母亲，谁曾握住我的手的母亲。”！他恳求
有什么区别？ “当被问及谁糊涂母亲
“区别非常大。”她说，“如果我是牵着手母亲和到达任何发生在我身上，我可能会释放我的抓地力”
“但如果谁牵我手的妈妈，我知道无论发生什么事，母亲永远不会放开我的手”
THE POWER OF MOTHER'S LOVE
A little girl and her mother were crossing a bridge that fragile. The mother told her daughter "hold my hand tightly so that you do not fall into the river"
She responded "no mother, the mother who had to hold my hand." !!! he pleaded
What's the difference? "Asked the mother who confused
"The difference Very Large" she replied, "if I were holding hands mother and arrivedanything happens to me, I'm probably going to release my grip"
"But if the mother who holds my hand, I know that whatever happens, the mother will never let go of my hand"
She responded "no mother, the mother who had to hold my hand." !!! he pleaded
What's the difference? "Asked the mother who confused
"The difference Very Large" she replied, "if I were holding hands mother and arrivedanything happens to me, I'm probably going to release my grip"
"But if the mother who holds my hand, I know that whatever happens, the mother will never let go of my hand"
Never Rush to Judge a Person!
The following story may be an inspiration for us.
A doctor is being rushed into the operating room. The father of the child to be operated on him "Why are you so long to get here? What you do not know, my son's life in danger if not immediately in operation ?! "said the father.
He smiled, "I'm sorry, I'm not in the hospital before, but I am here as soon as possible after a call from the hospital."
Then he headed for the operating room, after a few hours he came out with a smile on his face. thankfully, the state of your child is stable now. "Without waiting for an answer to the father, the doctor said," the nurse will help you if you want to ask. "The doctor passes.
"Why did the doctor was very arrogant? He's rightly gives a description of the circumstances of my son! "The father said to the nurse.
In tears nun replied, "Son of a doctor, died in the accident yesterday afternoon, he was burying his son when we called him to do operation on your child. Now that your child has survived, he could go back to mourn. "
Never rush to judge a person!
But know every soul around us who saves the life story of unimaginable in our minds.
非常鼓舞人心“的孩子，小型犬”
Yī wèi diànzhǔ zhāngtiē tā de diàn ménkǒu,“xiǎo gǒu mài pǐn”. Zhè yī xiāoxī shì fēngfù duōcǎi, xīyǐn xiǎo háizi de zhùyì lì. Shíjiàn zhèngmíng, yīgè háizi zhàn zài yuèdú gōnggào. Tā wèn diànzhǔ:“Wǒ kěyǐ kàn dào xiǎo gǒu ma?”
Diàn lǎobǎn shuō de méi cuò, tā dǎkāile lóngzi lǐ de xiǎo gǒu shì shuí zài gélóu shàng. Yǒusān zhī gǒu kě'ài de xiǎo máoróngrōng de pǎo xià lóu. Ér zài tāmen shēnhòu hái yǒuyī zhǐ xiǎo gǒu yī qué yī guǎi. Nánhái wèn,“yǒu shé me bù hǎo de xiǎo gǒu?” Diàn lǎobǎn jiěshì shuō, xiǎo gǒu zài tā de kuàgǔ chūshēng quēxiàn. “Ránhòu, wǒ huì mǎi xiǎo gǒu,” háizi shuō. Diàn lǎobǎn jīng dāile,“rúguǒ zhè jiùshì nǐ xiǎng yào wǒ huì gěi tā shì miǎnfèi de dōngxī”. Dàn xiǎo nánhái yáo yáotóu,“bù, suīrán yǒu quēxiàn, xiǎo gǒu réngrán yǒu xiàng qítā xiǎo gǒu de dàijià. Wǒ huì mǎi tā. Duōshǎo qián?” Diànzhǔ réngrán bù fúqì,“shì de, dàn nǐ juéduì huì bù xǐhuān xiǎo gǒu, tā wúfǎ yùnxíng, bìng fāhuī xiàng qítā “. Dànshì, xiǎo nánhái shuō,“dàn tā xūyào yǒurén shuí nénggòu lǐjiě tāmen.” Nánhái juǎn qǐ kùguǎn, fāxiàn tā de yītiáo tuǐ shì jiǎ de.
Bù pànduàn rènhé wéiyī de wàiguān, dàn kànzhe tā, xīnlǐ, sīxiǎng, pǐnzhí děng. Yīnwèi zǒng yǒu yīxiē kàn qǐlái chǒulòu hé huài tā zǒng shì huì háo wú yìyì kě yán.
Diàn lǎobǎn shuō de méi cuò, tā dǎkāile lóngzi lǐ de xiǎo gǒu shì shuí zài gélóu shàng. Yǒusān zhī gǒu kě'ài de xiǎo máoróngrōng de pǎo xià lóu. Ér zài tāmen shēnhòu hái yǒuyī zhǐ xiǎo gǒu yī qué yī guǎi. Nánhái wèn,“yǒu shé me bù hǎo de xiǎo gǒu?” Diàn lǎobǎn jiěshì shuō, xiǎo gǒu zài tā de kuàgǔ chūshēng quēxiàn. “Ránhòu, wǒ huì mǎi xiǎo gǒu,” háizi shuō. Diàn lǎobǎn jīng dāile,“rúguǒ zhè jiùshì nǐ xiǎng yào wǒ huì gěi tā shì miǎnfèi de dōngxī”. Dàn xiǎo nánhái yáo yáotóu,“bù, suīrán yǒu quēxiàn, xiǎo gǒu réngrán yǒu xiàng qítā xiǎo gǒu de dàijià. Wǒ huì mǎi tā. Duōshǎo qián?” Diànzhǔ réngrán bù fúqì,“shì de, dàn nǐ juéduì huì bù xǐhuān xiǎo gǒu, tā wúfǎ yùnxíng, bìng fāhuī xiàng qítā “. Dànshì, xiǎo nánhái shuō,“dàn tā xūyào yǒurén shuí nénggòu lǐjiě tāmen.” Nánhái juǎn qǐ kùguǎn, fāxiàn tā de yītiáo tuǐ shì jiǎ de.
Bù pànduàn rènhé wéiyī de wàiguān, dàn kànzhe tā, xīnlǐ, sīxiǎng, pǐnzhí děng. Yīnwèi zǒng yǒu yīxiē kàn qǐlái chǒulòu hé huài tā zǒng shì huì háo wú yìyì kě yán.
Very Inspiring " CHILD AND SMALL DOGS "
A shop owner posting his shop door, "puppies for sale". The announcement was made colorful to attract the attention of small children. Proven, a child stood reading the announcement. He asked the shop owner, "May I see the puppies that?"
The store owner said yes, and he opened the cage puppy who was in the attic. There are three dogs cute little furry ran down the stairs. And behind them there is a puppy limping. The boy asked, "What's wrong with the puppy?" The store owner explained that the puppy was a birth defect in his hip bone. "Then I will buy the puppy," the boy said. The shop owner was stunned, "If that's what you want I will give it for free". But the little boy shook his head, "No, although flawed, the puppy still has a price like other puppies. I would buy it. How much is it? "The store owner was still not convinced," Yes, but you definitely will not like the puppy, he could not run and play like other ". But the little boy said, "But he needs someone who can understand them." The boy rolled up his pants and found one of his legs is false.
Do not judge any of the only outward appearance, but look at it , hearts, thoughts, quality etc. Because there is always something that looks ugly and bad it will always be no meaning at all.
Motivation "A Mother's True Love"
A new mother blissful asked the doctor, "Can I see my baby?"
When it moved into his arms and he opened the blanket wrapped around her little baby boy's face it, the mother hold her breath. Doctors are waiting for him immediately turned to look out the window toward the hospital. The baby was born without both his ears!
Time proved that the baby's hearing has now grown into a child it worked perfectly.Only appearance just looks weird and bad. One day the boy hurried home and buried her face in her mother's arms crying. He knew his son lives filled with disappointment and tragedy.
The boy was sobbing said, "Mom, a big boy mocking me. He said, I have a strange creature. "The boy was growing up.
He is quite handsome with his disability. He also favored friends his school. He also developed his talent in music and writing. He wanted to be the head of the class.
His mother warned, "Are not you will be hanging out with other teenagers?"
However, in the heart of the mother felt sorry for him. One day the boy's father met a biased grafted her ear.
The doctor said, "I believe I can move her ears. But there must be someone who is willing to donate his ears. "
Later, the boy's parents began looking for anyone who wants to sacrifice and donate on their ear. Several months had passed. And it's time they call her son.
The father said, "Son, do not want to be known someone who has been willing to donate his ear to you. We must immediately send you to the hospital for surgery.However, all of this is a secret. "The operation was a success.
A new man was born. Great musical talent was turned into a genius.
He also received many awards from the school. Some time later he was married and worked as a diplomat.
He met his father, "Dad, I need to find out who has been willing to sacrifice it all on me. The man has done something great but I did not return the favor. "
His father replied, "I'd sure you will not be able to repay the kindness of people who have given the ear."
Having paused for a moment his father continued, "In accordance with the agreement, it is not time for you to know all the secrets of this."
Year after year. Both parents were still keeping secrets. Until one day came the sad moment for the family.
On the day the father and son were standing on the edge of the coffin of his mother who had just died. Slowly and gently, stroking his father's body hair lying dead mother, then menyibaknya so it appeared that the mother does not have ears.
The father whispered, "Mama you never said that Mama happy to lengthen hair. And nobody realized that Mama has lost a bit of her beauty is not it? "
True beauty lies in the appearance of the body but in the mind. Ultimate treasure lies not in what could be seen, but on what can not be seen. True love does not lie in the act of love that has been done and known, but in the act of love that has been done yet unknown.