If We Can't Have What We Love, Then Love What We Have
Be thankful, if we can not have what we Love, Then Love what we have.
Looking down : Be grateful for all that exists.
Look to the side : Has the spirit of togetherness.
Looking back : Make it as a valuable experience.
Look into : Learn to introspect and
Looking ahead : Prepare yourself to be better.
From water we learn Tranquility.
From the stone we learn Rigidity.
From the Land We learn of Life.
From butterflies we learn Changing Yourself.
From rice we learn Humble.
From HEART we learned about the Perfect Love.
Because no one is perfect.
Message of LOVE
- If someone wants to be a part of your life. He will seriously make an effort to work on that. Without reason, without rebuttal. A struggle that is worth fighting for and guarded.
- Stop waiting for someone who may not even run directed towards you, even if it is difficult to leave but had to. If she loves, she will defend you no matter what, and in fact? He did not choose you. Accept reality and go, it's one you light outlaw even though he did not say it.
- If the two are like, so both will be mutual efforts. If only you were a business, it means he does not like. Simple.
- Better to wait for the right person, rather than spending time with the wrong people.
- We can not choose who we fall in love, but we can choose who is worthy to keep fighting.
- Do not convince yourself that he likes, just because he's being nice to you. Sometimes we just become an option when he gets bored with each other.
- People who love you, will never be able to give reasons why he loves you. But hearts and your eyes there is only one, to do anything for you, jyga receive you what it is, even if people say you're bad, he still looks at all really very good and perfect.
- Blessed, when someone talkative, while someone still wants to be angry, when someone is still memperdulikanmu, because when someone did not say anything, he has to get used to no longer need you.
LESSONS OF FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE RATS
Perhaps no one ever hurt a friend or friends? As a man who got the highest advantage among all creatures, we are apparently still have to learn the animal instinct. Even on a pair of white mice.
In a zoo, Zoo Hangzau Zheijang province, eastern China, happening at once touching the unique scenery. When two white rats were caged snake for dinner, one rat was immediately approached by a snake as his first meal.
However, what happens? The white mouse friend bravely approached the snake and attack to help his friend who is in danger of dying in the mouth of the snake. Of course these actions very daring, considering the green snake is venomous varieties. So, not only much larger than the size of the body of the rat, snake strength is well above its class.
One of the officers in charge of feeding the snake, and perpetuate witnessed the incident. He also tearfully took back rat snake attacking predators. According to the guards, these mice have the right to earn a chance to live.
The above story may be an afterthought, that should we treat a friend, not only to laugh when happy, but also present when he was in grief and need help.
CRITICIZE IT EASY, BUT CORRECT THE DIFFICULT
There is a painting which was completed for 5 days 4 nights-a very beautiful landscape painting. The artist wants to show his work at the crowd, at the same time want to know what they think.
Then, he put his painting on a busy street. Under the painting, he gave the writing, "This painting is my work. Maybe I've made some mistakes in the scratches, color selection, and so on. Please mark X on the part that you think are wrong." In the afternoon, the artist returned to retrieve the painting, and he was very surprised to see the whole canvas filled with an X following the comments spicy.
With very disappointed, the artist went to a painting teacher. He feels useless and failed to become a painter. The wise teacher, then shows his students how to prove that he is not a bad painter.
This painting teacher asked her to create a painting that has been stripped back these people. But this time, the caption under the picture reads thus, "Brothers, I have painted this painting. Perhaps there is an error in the scratches, color selection, and so on. So I provide a canvas, a box of brushes, and paint. Please be kind enough to fix it. Thank you. "
In the afternoon, he returned. The result? The painting was kept clean without any correction. The painting was still left there until the next three days, and still keep it clean of correction.
Message we can take from this story:
- Criticizing is easy, but it is difficult to fix.
- Do not let yourself be crushed and depressed simply because of the criticism of others.
- Analysis Analysis k criticism carefully. If wrong, do not care about. But if true it must be accepted. Take criticism to improve.
Fruit Can Also Fall Far From The Tree
There are 2 people brother sister who was born of a broken family, mother and their father drunkards, gamblers, and other bad things.
Their mother died earlier when they were little and yet know nothing, while their father died when they were still in school.
Because it does not have any family that is willing to accommodate, they live in a different orphanage. News about the unfortunate fate of the two brothers, adorned the local news papers in their country.
40 years after the incident, the chief editor of the newspaper wanted to know where the two sister brother was, he sent a team of reporters to cover the event special.
They found her brother was in a bar or nightclubs in a drunken condition and appears to have no bathing days.
And they interviewed the brother, why did he get to be like this?
With a cry, the sister replied: "I like this because Father,,, What can you expect from the son of a drunkard? Here I am, a drunk too, fruit that does not fall far from the tree !!"
Meanwhile another journalist discovered his brother, is in another city as a director of a Large Company, he has a family happy and wealthy life.
They interviewed the brother, what is the motivation that he could be this good, he replied: "My father was an alcoholic and gambler FIRST, I will Prove to everybody that I could be successful, great people, even though I was born into a family of drunks and gamblers !! ".
Mindset in mind is what will determine how and where DIRECTION lives are going to live.
Do you see from the NEGATIVE / POSITIVE you take his side, choice is in your hands respectively.
Never be caught in the doctrine of any kind !! Keep in mind: It turns out that "Fruit Can Also Fall Far From The Tree !!.
NEVER GIVE UP
Spain Version : el poder del amor de madre
Una niña y su madre estaban cruzando un puente que frágil. La madre le dijo a su hija "toma mi mano con fuerza para que no caigan en el río"
Ella respondió "no madre, la madre que tuvo que sostener mi mano." !!! se declaró
Cual es la diferencia? "Le pregunté a la madre que confunde
"La diferencia muy grande", respondió ella, "si estuviera sosteniendo manos de la madre y llegó algo me pasa, probablemente voy a soltar mis manos"
"Pero si la madre que sostiene mi mano, sé que pase lo que pase, la madre nuncava a dejar ir de la mano
Ella respondió "no madre, la madre que tuvo que sostener mi mano." !!! se declaró
Cual es la diferencia? "Le pregunté a la madre que confunde
"La diferencia muy grande", respondió ella, "si estuviera sosteniendo manos de la madre y llegó algo me pasa, probablemente voy a soltar mis manos"
"Pero si la madre que sostiene mi mano, sé que pase lo que pase, la madre nuncava a dejar ir de la mano